Dear Oprah: Thank you!
It was refreshing to hear an open, frank discussion about Menopause, hormones and hot flashes on national TV – and on the most popular talk show for women to boot. It was downright historic! And long overdue. As Oprah put it, it’s about time that “the veil of shame” around menopause was lifted and that we should “get a conversation started about it.”
Only someone like Oprah, with a worldwide platform, could pull this off, so I thank her profusely! Hopefully, her initiative will begin an “oral tradition” of sharing information about Menopause with our friends and daughters so that women can take control of their own lives and, as she put it, “demand to feel better!”
The program covered a lot of ground and you’ll find show excerpts and more information on Oprah’s website, but here are three important points emphasized by Dr. Christiane Northrup, author of The Wisdom of Menopause ( “the bible of menopause,” as Oprah put it) and Robin McGraw, author of What’s Age Got to Do with It?: Living Your Healthiest and Happiest Life:
- Seek help from doctors who will take the time to do proper testing of your hormones and who are willing to work with you until you feel better. This may involve constant tweaking of hormone replacement therapy, so work as a team with your physician.
- Do your own research! – There’s a lot of controversy about bio-identical hormones. If your own physician urges you to take synthetic hormones, and tells you that nothing else works, do your own research first to see if that is best option for you.
- Changes in our hormone levels begin eight to 10 years before menopause – usually around 45 years of age. For some women, it can start even earlier than that. If you begin experiencing symptoms like migraines, mood swings, brain fog, hot flashes and insomnia, have your hormone levels tested and balanced properly. Don’t suffer needlessly!
Did you watch the show? What did you get out of it and what do you still want to know? I hope you’ll continue the conversation that Oprah began and share your thoughts, questions and knowledge here.
I still don’t know what I’m going to do. Maybe I will take your advice and get a consult. Glad to see your blog is doing so well!
Thanks for your comment Marianne – I like my gynocologist but felt I needed someone who could spend more time with me, so I added an integrative medicine specialist – an M.D. who is interested in a holistic approach to medicine. She’s like my personal medical “coach.” I’ve also consulted a naturopathic doctor, and a nutrtionist to help me lose weight. Consider putting together your own team of experts to help you reach your goals of optimal wellness. (see my blogpost on how a Menopause Coach can help too.)
I think it’s fantastic that Oprah did this show. It’s given me more confidence to “fire” my doctor and find another who is more sympathetic to menopausal women and who is willing to take the time with me. I sometimes think that doctors prescribe too quickly just to end a 10 minute consultation. Hormone balancing takes more effort, time and research.
Yes, I’m glad she made that point too. It seems though that many women – certainly the ones who were profiled – experience more depression than hysteria during menopause these days . I also appreciated her opinion about how many doctors over prescribe anti-depressants for women rather than investigate their hormone levels.
I love that she touched on the fact that before now, women were carted away to the isylum, diagnosed with hysteria (when there were just hormonal!!!) Thanks Oprah for making that comment.
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